Cordelia is here to help with some ideas for sex games to spice things up!
Who doesn’t like to spice things up in the bedroom? I know I do! The first blog I wrote was about dealing with chronic pain and learning how to make sex fun again. Well, it’s not just down to the sex, sometimes it’s about getting there.
Twenty questions
Why not get the ball rolling with a little verbal. If you’re stuck on questions to ask – check out one of my previous blogs here!
Naked Twister
Grab the traditional game of Twister but instead of inviting friends (well, that might be some added fun) strip down and play together. Seriously, sounds ridiculous but who knows how fun that could end up being? You might even find a new position you end up liking 😉
Truth or Dare
Go back to your younger days and enjoy a came of dirty truth or dare. “I dare you to ____ my _____” One, long, slow torturous game until someone breaks!
Pick Your Fantasy
Each one of you write down 3-5 fantasies, put them in a hat and then you each pick one. Obviously, it’s really important to discuss these beforehand so your partner doesn’t draw one they’re uncomfortable with. The point is to stay in the mood.
Time Bomb
This one seems pretty fun. You’ll need some kind of timer, set it for as long as you wish, be it 5 minutes, 10, 20…whatever works for you and your partner. Strip down and while the timer is on, one person gets to kiss/tease/touch/etc the other while the other can’t touch. No penetration allowed until you’ve each gone a round or two.
Sexy Suits
For this one, you’ll need a deck of cards. One person will draw a card and based on what they draw, they’ll do whatever the act is to their partner. For example, Heart cards could be for kissing and then the number on the card is how many second the action should go on for. The game intro I found about it had it as the following – Hearts = Kissing, Diamonds = a massage, Clubs = hands on, touching, Spades = oral.
Follow the Honey
This could be done with anything really, honey, chocolate syrup, whip cream, etc. But make a trail on your partners body and clean it up with your tongue. since this one is pretty sticky/messy, it might not be for everyone.
Dice Games
A lot of sex stores have different sex dice games that already have sexual acts on them – like suck/lick/bite/etc on one and ear//breasts/penis/vagina/etc on the other. Some of them have different sex position on them too. You could always make your own by writing down a list with body part/dice number and action/dice number and use regular dice. This is SO much fun.
Strip Pong
Beer pong but naked! Well, you can use beer or any alcohol of your choice (mine would be Malibu, beer is awful.) each time you make a shot, your partner strips an article of clothing.
The Kissing Game
This is a lot like the drinking game lol. Put on a movie, pick a word and every time that word comes up in the movie, kiss each other…lips or somewhere else 😉
Hot and Cold
This is another fun one. Get settled in a private room, blindfold your partner and have him remove his pants. You’re going to give him a blow job but you’ll keep him guessing with the hot and cold bit – you’ll need a couple cold items like ice cream, ice cubes, etc and then some warm like warm honey, warm chocolate, warm tea, take a sip/bite of whatever you chose, then go to town on your partner. Alternate between the heat and cold -be careful it’s not TOO cold or TOO hot, you want this fun, not dangerous.
Roleplay
I know it sounds so very simple, but this can lead to a lot of fun. Ever have a fantasy you wanted to play out? Banging your super hot professor? A firefighter? The age old dirty maid fantasy? Bust out the costumes, dress out, go outside of your norm, you never know what you could end up enjoying. Whether it’s staying home and playing in the bedroom, meeting at the bar and acting like a one night stand, play around with it!
I really hope you guys take part in these! There’s a few that I want to try with my man and there’s a few that I’ve already tried that were a ton of fun. Have fun with your partner. I know life gets in the way, kids, work, stress, pain issues…don’t let it stop you from loving on your partner. You can still enjoy each others bodies and get off without much effort. You’d be shocked how far some sensual touches can get you.
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