As someone who has always struggled with eating pussy, I went to my friends for advice…

Going down on a vagina can be something terrifying for a first timer, but don’t you worry, my friends and I have some advice from you (or moreso, my friends!) 

The number one thing you need is: Communication

Whether or not you’re going down on someone for the first time, or see yourself as well-seasoned, communication is key in regards to all sexual acts. If you don’t ask, you won’t know what they truly enjoy or if what you’re doing is working. Without any direction, no one can be expected to know what to do. Each body is different and likes different things, so ensure that you read body language and ask, especially during the first time. Having the light conversation beforehand can not only be a form of foreplay, but a way to further know how you can pleasure her vagina during oral play. 

Take it slow 

Before you dive right in, be sure to tease and test the waters. Kiss, lick, and gently caress inner thighs, hips, and the top of the pussy while you familiarize yourself with what you’re playing with. Use your tongue lightly on the clit and don’t be afraid to involve fingers if they enjoy the extra sensations during play! Overall, there can be no REAL guide to oral of any kind, as each person is different and requires different sensations to orgasm, but with communication and taking it slow, you know you’ll be on the right track.

For the FULL interview, watch the video below!