Low expectations for your pleasure
When we allow our partner and those we are having sex with to think they have brought you to orgasm despite not getting you there, why would they improve? If you are not finding that your engines are revved by what is going on, don’t pretend!
Refusing to have a conversation where reality is brought to the table and your desires are met is succumbing to a mediocre sex life. Until you have the conversation, you are giving your partner NO reason to believe you are dissatisfied. Be sure to have this talk sooner rather than later! There is nothing worse than realizing you were doing something wrong for some time and were not told!
In your head too much during sex
If you are in your head and unable to escape during sex or find orgasm, it’s important to know that orgasm is not necessary in sex. If you don’t want to cum or do not believe you can relax enough to do so, tell your partner. This is much better than faking it and the truth potentially coming out in the future. Let them know that the things they are doing are pleasurable. Even if you wish for them to continue, you may not be in the right mindset to let go and orgasm.
This is a mature conversation to have with your partner and should be able to be spoken about with no issues arising.
For more examples, information, sex education, and my opinions about faking an orgasm, watch my video on the subject below!
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