Come and get some sex education from Cordelia about squirting!
Squirting, aka female ejaculation. Urban legend or something legit?
Well, that’s a good question. Squirting is still something that hasn’t been figured out entirely. Is it urine? Is it not? Most information out there seems to lean more toward it being female ejaculation, not urine, because it’s more of a milky or clear fluid…
The case for cum
A lot of women who have had a squirting orgasm have seen/tasted/touched the fluid that comes out and swear it’s not urine. That said, there are still a lot of researchers out there that do believe it is urine. There was even a study done in France (with a very small sample size) that involved them emptying their bladders then undergoing ultrasounds on their bladders while orgasming. That small study pointed to squirting actually being urine. The problem with these studies is they’re usually under funded with small sample sizes and other female-specific issues can skew the data.
According to the School of Squirt’s expert team, squirting is caused when the G-spot is stimulated properly. It doesn’t always occur but this is when there’s the highest chance of female ejaculation. Like the male prostate gland, women have one like it called the Skene glands or the female prostate gland. They do rest on each side of the urethra but that does not necessarily mean it’s urine that comes out. Occasionally though, very small amounts of urine can leak out. It might actually feel like you’re about to pee or like your bladder is full but that’s from the pressure building before the orgasm hits.
Couple things to keep in mind:
Good news, you might be able to learn how to squirt! It’s possible with and without a partner but it does typically require vigorous thrusting against the G-spot. Remember to use the bathroom before the activities start, that way when that feeling starts to come around, you know you’re going to squirt not urinate. I think this is what gets in a lot of girls ways when it comes to squirting. Let your mind go and don’t stress if you can’t make it happen. Not everyone can because not all women are responsive to G-spot stimulation. That is NORMAL. That said, don’t feel bad or embarrassed if you CAN make it happen.
IF you and your partner both enjoy it, do not try and let anyone tell you not to do it or try and shame you for it. From my research, there is nothing that I found that says it will harm your body in any way. Also, lot of partner’s are actually really into it. Surprisingly, it’s a big confidence booster for your s/o. Remember, relaxation is key! Don’t turn sex into something that’s pressure.
