Masturbation with a Penis
Cordelia Michaelson
Sassmaster whose life revolves around horses and crime shows.
CORDELIA IS HERE WITH SOME SEX EDUCATION ABOUT THE JOURNEY OF MASTURBATION!
A few weeks ago I brought you masturbation with a vagina (check it out HERE) but how about a mastubation guide for those of you with a penis?
Masturbation for those with a penis can be so much more intense that just a quick jerk off session. Seriously, instead of making it a game of speed, slow it down and really set the mood.
You might find you enjoy the long, drawn out play session.
Try turning down the lights to set the mood, if you’re someone who enjoys some visual stimulation, find a video to watch or even support a cam girl by tuning into one of her shows. But keep it slow, tease yourself and relax into it instead of throwing yourself into a mad rush to see how fast you can rub one out.
Entertain the idea of switching positions. You don’t have to just stand, sit, or lay back. Try something different like kneeling, on your hands and knees, leaning against something. Change it up from your normal rountinue and do something new and exciting. Changing positions can bring different kind of sensations.
Speaking of different sensations, don’t just focus on position but also how you’re masturbating; if you’re always fast and rough, try slow and gentle, if you’re gentle, try something rougher, don’t be afraid to give your balls some attention too. Grab some lube and get yourself nice and slick too. Maybe try changing up the type of lube too, there are plenty out there.
Switch it up
Speaking of changing things up, switching hands and using your nondominant hand can also bring on new sensations. Also pay attention to where you’re stroking, gentle strokes along the underside of the shaft can bring on all new sensations too. Different stroking patterns will also cause different sensations – twisting strokes, full hands grips, a few fingers, teasing the head, change it up. Sure the typical up and down stroke is one that’s pretty much guartuneed to bring on an orgasm but do something new.
Guys, just like women, have erogenous zones.
Take the time to explore those too. If you don’t know what those are – they’re your ears, nipples, the back of he neck, lips, and don’t forget the almighty prostate. You can pinch, tug, pull, or rub on them. Hell, if you’re feeling frisky, you can grab a vibrating toy and use that too! Don’t be afraid to get toys involved, there’s no shame in using them. Back to the prostate, if you’re willing to hunt for the male g-spot, this can be done by using your fingers or even a toy.
Make sure you’re going slowly if this is something new to you or you run the risk of potentially harming yourself and don’t for the lube for anal play! Also, vibrating toys and anal toys aren’t the only ones you can try, like auto strokers that do the work for you, fleshlights, pocket strokers, prostate stimulators, anal beads, sex dolls, there’s also several other devices and toys that are replicas of your favorite models vagina or even their ass. I’m sure there’s something out there.
Add in edging. This might not be for everyone but edging can be incredible and lead to one hell of an explosive orgam for both men and women. If you’re not familiar with edging, it’s bringing yourself right to the point of an orgasm and then taking it away. You can do this one, twice, or hell, spend the day doing it on and off.
You can also try adding in visual material to help too. Being able to picture something in your mind is great and so are videos but other things you can try are still shots, gifs (There are some great tumblr pages for those!), but also erotic writings. If you’re a reader, sometimes these pieces can be super stimulating and even if you’re not, give it a go. (Here, to help you find some decent pieces to start with, check out Tawney and I’s Patreon HERE)
