Cordelia is back to start our year off right with some education about Cuckolding.

I’m surprised that at this far into Openbobsbb being around, we haven’t covered cuckolding yet. Especially with how popular it seems to be.

For those that don’t know, cuckolding didn’t always mean what it does today. Originally, and by originally I mean going back quite a long time ago, it meant being the husband of a wife that had committed adultery. Additionally, at one point, it wasn’t just a sexual fetish but it also referred to a male who was unknowingly engaging in a sexual relationship to impregnate the female counterpart.

A cuckoo start

The word itself actually came from a cuckoo bird because this particular bird has made a habit of laying its eggs in other birds nests. Aka, it represents a wife laying in another man’s bed. The wife is the egg, the strange bed is the nest.

The actual intention of this fetish is the humiliation aspect of it. Originally, it was the humiliation that the wife was getting one over on her husband and he had no idea she was sleeping with someone else because she wasn’t getting enough at home, making him a fool. Its original intent was to mock.

Now-a-days

Now-a-days, Cuckolding by definition focuses on heterosexual couples but specifically a man who has another man engage in a sexual relationship with his wife OR a woman sleeping with another man in front of her husband. — This fetish does goes far beyond the actual definition of it, however. So please do not feel as though I personally am leaving people out of this. Plenty of couples that are same sex or bisexual will take part in this.

Also, for those that are uncomfortable actually WATCHING their partner with someone else, some also get off on the idea or knowledge of their partner being with someone else without actually having to watch it. Sometimes it’s just the idea of their partner having unprotected sex with someone else as well.

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The idea is that a man is “forced” to watch his partner have sexual intercourse with another person but often times, it’s not actually true coercion. The intent is still humiliation but those involved in this fetish enjoy said humiliation. Cuckolding is usually linked to the BDSM world as one of the fetishes involved there.

Another thing to note

Like engaging in a threesome, it’s really important to talk to your partner about this beforehand. You have to be able to accept your partner is going to engage in sexual activities in front of you with another person. This is something where jealousy can absolutely raise its ugly head so it’s vital you trust your partner and you both know each others concerns.

That said, if that’s the case, I strongly advise being on top of your sexual health and getting tested regularly. This goes for anyone engaging in sexual intercourse with multiple partners. Your sexual health should be the utmost importance, especially if you’re engage in unprotected sexual activity.